LAST WEEK’S WISHES
1. Go to Osaka
2. Get at least 24-hours rest
3. Be more cheerful, less snippy
4. Eat healthier
As soon as last week’s Weekly Wishes post was published last week, I got ready full steam ahead for Osaka from Melbourne via Cairns. Myself and the rest of my crew were psyching ourselves up for the long day ahead…. only to be informed while we were waiting to disembark passengers in Cairns that our flight to Osaka has been CANCELLED. Bummer.
I flew back to Melbourne the next day, and I wasn’t getting any better. My ears were partially blocked and ringing, my nose was just.. well.. runny. The ground staff at Cairns Airport took one look at me and asked if I had work the next day. I said I did. She said,“Do NOT hop on that flight to Narita tomorrow. It’s full of people who are just gonna to piss you off. You have sick days, use it.” And that was exactly what I did. I had a 48-hour delay to rest (somewhat) and the next day, hell started all over again. I was supposed to be going home on the 17th but I didn’t. I don’t even wanna recall what I went through. Bottom line was, I got home the next day… and less than 24 hours later, I GOT CALLED UP TO WORK.
But while I was home, mum placed me on a strict icy drinks ban. I had to have plain water, or honey water… or anything that doesn’t involve ice or comes from the fridge. It was hell. But I did eat healthier while I was home.. somehow.
Less than 24 hours since I got back, I threw my stuff from the big luggage to a smaller one and dragged my ass all the way to the airport once again, to Melbourne. I was flying for free to Melbourne to bring a flight back to Singapore in two days. Short trip, whatever. I wasn’t at all pleased. I was placed in economy, which I didn’t mind at all… because I was already prepared for it, neck pillow and all. They changed my seat at the gate, from economy to economy.. NO DIFFERENCE, but it’s okay. The ground staff at the gate asked if I was a duty traveller and I had to use all the muscles on my face to muster a smile and a nod. No matter how crappy I felt, I shouldn’t take it out on random strangers right? But being nice paid off because just as I was settling down in my seat next to a British gentleman, another ground staff came looking for me to UPGRADE me to Business class. It was truly a blessing to be upgraded to FLAT BEDS at the very last minute. Hee.
THIS WEEK’S WISHES:
1. Continue to get better
The infection in my right ear has mellowed down, so it’s not quite as blocked and that annoying constantly ringing sound has disappeared thank God. My sinus is still very much still out of commission. I thought I sounded fine when I met Ming, Arafath and Ummar for a smoothie last night after flight. But as soon as we were alone Ummar was like, “What happened to your voice?” Okay, apparently I DON’T sound fine. More fluids, less party this week!
2. Experiment with a proper camera
I haven’t touched a DSLR in two years. I had one, but I traded it with my younger sister for a semi-pro point and shoot camera. That 500D is ancient and equipped with a kit lens and also my favourite 50mm/1.4 portrait lens. But I want to get my hands on a full-frame camera and experiment with a different lens. It’s my cousin’s wedding this weekend and from prior experiences, I get the best photos around family chaos. So some equipment renting is in order.
3. Do something to the hair
My curly roots are growing out, and I need to do something to it PRONTO. Straighten it as usual? Curl it for the cousin’s wedding? Cut it short (eek no)? I know I have to do something with the annoying fringe. I used to maintain my bangs by DIY snipping. Drives my friend Aysh, who’s a hairstylist, CRAZY. Now that I’m growing it out, it looks kinda weird.
4. Be a little more selfish… not in a bad way of course
I tend to give more of myself to those who do not necessarily deserve it or even appreciate it. I am fully aware of what I’m doing sometimes, and still I let people walk all over me like a carpet. I used to say sorry for things I didn’t even do.. especially at work, but I’ve been taking extra measures to bite back my sorries unless I actually did something that warrants it. I am tired of people saying something that strikes a chord and then leaves it hanging by saying ‘Never mind.’ If you want to say something to me, about me.. OUT WITH IT. I might get angry, yes. But I get over it too. I might reflect on that and choose to act upon it accordingly. Do you know how frustrating it is to be left hanging, and wondering what goes on in that other person’s mind? I am no mind reader, and I am sick and tired of second guessing myself. If you’re half a good friend as you claim yourself to be, you won’t constantly leave me hanging and make me second guess myself. Just saying.
If you have battled friends like these, pleeeease share it on the comments below!
Just like Elizabeth, I’m eggcited for sushi with our friend Emily on Thursday! It’s awesome to meet (almost) everyone again after ages. We used to meet almost every few weeks and now… every few months? or when something important comes up, like when Emily decides to pop by Singapore. Have a great week ahead everyone!
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